Dating a Widower: How to Overcome Feeling Second Best and Build a Strong Relationship
Introduction When you’re dating a widower, the journey is often accompanied by a mix of emotions—excitement for a new relationship, but also an underlying fear of feeling like you’re in competition with a cherished memory. If you’ve found yourself wondering whether you’ll always feel like the runner-up to their late spouse, know that you’re not alone. Many people in your shoes face similar concerns. The good news? It's absolutely possible to have a healthy, loving relationship, and you can get over that feeling of being second best. Are you dating a widower and often find yourself feeling like you're in second place? Understanding the Widower's Perspective Before going into tips and strategies, it is important to understand the unique circumstances widowers navigate. The loss of a spouse is life-changing, and for many, the grieving process is ongoing even as they open their hearts to love again. 1. The Duality of Love Many widowers feel great love for their deceased spous...